They'll say things like "Why is her hair so messy? I bet she doesn't know how to take care of herself."
"That's her boyfriend? He's not that good looking as she said he is."
Let's be honest. Everyone has condemn someone in their life. When you have anger or some unpleasant feelings in you, you are bound to condemn someone. It's human nature to condemn people even if we don't realize it but there are limits. When you start to condemn your family or friends, you've gone too far. You see, condemning people usually involves a third individual because you tell someone about how you think about a certain someone and it's usually a bad something.
I don't really condemn people. People have different interest, taste, life, opinions, reasons, let them do what they want. If they regret, it's their problem. You can think better things like why people are being racist while always everyone in the world has mix races in their blood. I mean, the majority population are not 100% pure Chinese, Malay, Indian, American etc. We are mix of different races. Think about that and stop being racist.
I realize some people always condemn people and they didn't even realize it as if it's in their blood to condemn. It's best you tell them directly but if they are your best friends or one of your family members, then tell them nicely. Give hints or say things like "It's not nice to say that. What if you were them?" "Maybe they have their reasons to act that way. Let them be." If you really don't know what to say, then just say "No comment." I do that most of the time because I was tired of arguing. I believe in karma. What you do or say about others will come back to you so be careful with what you do and say.
Before I forget, not everything you say is condemning people so don't worry.
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karma??that sounds familiar..=)
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